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3 Importance Of Communication In A Relationship



Communication Is the exchange of information through writing, speaking and other means. While relationship in this context is the intimate connection between two people.

Communication is very important in our relationships, infact it’s one of the key factor that holds a relationship. Communication is the biggest key to a successful relationship.

It’s good if you can maintain good communication skill with your patner. Not being able to communicate with your partner can lead to stress, trust issues and even frustration and It can also lead to destruction of the relationship.

How to communicate well with your partner.

1. Listen to what your partner has to say. That is, give your partner listening ears on whatsoever they want to talk about. Understand what they want and how they feel. Then you can speak in return. Speaking together at once could cause fights.

2. Always communicate at the right time.
Sometimes when something is bothering you and you really need to say it out but you observed that your partner is not really in a good mood. Saying it at that particular time could cause a fight, so in this situation, you need to communicate when the person is in a good mood, probably at night before you both sleep, or when he or she is calm. Communicating at the right time matters a lot.

3. Communicate calmly.
If you start pointing fingers and shouting, the relationship will not go anywhere. So be calm when communicating so it wont escalate. It is always good to communicate face to face to avoid untrue assumptions.

No matter how much and how well you know your patner, you still need to communicate to avoid arguments, quarrel and misunderstandings. You cannot read your partner’s mind, so you need to communicate to know what they have in mind.

Two people make up a relationship, but each individual has their communication styles. Find out your type of communication skill and make good use of it, partners should find a communication skill that suits their relationship also.

Sometimes you don’t need to speak before you communicate, Your body gestures can also do a great communication, We might actually say something and we don’t mean it, Words might fail you, words might not be able to qualify what you want to say, but your body gestures can.

This non verbal means of communication can depicts how we feel about them.

Conclusively, Communicating with your patner is very important and will do good to the relationship, Communication can only make your relationship, it wont break it.

Learn to adopt good communication skills and do have a wonderful relationship.

Aisha Badmos is the CEO of
Aishaspeaksfact, a relationship platform.
She is the head of lifestyle and relationship unit of fidelinfo and be reached via Email:, 08025303932

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I Will Win If I Contest For Political Positions -Davido



The renown Nigerian singer, David Adeleke, aka Davido, wants an overhaul of the political system before he ventures into politics.

Davido said he would surely win if he contest for any elective positions.

The Fidelinfo gathered that the singer spoke to The Beat FM in Lagos, when he visited the station as part of efforts to promote his new album.

When he was asked: “Are you sure you’re not going to be into Politics later?” He replied… “To me, before I go into politics, they have to change the whole system. I’m not going to hustle and win the election, be sitting in my office then they will now take me to court and later tell me I did not win. I know if I go into Politics, I will win, it’s obvious.”


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Man To Divorce Wife After Plumber Removes 23 Condoms From Toilet



A Nigerian man has cried out after a plumber who came to unclog the toilet in his uncle’s house found 23 condoms.

This has led to the uncle seeking divorce hence the young man’s revelation.

According to the unidentified man, his uncle and wife just celebrated two years in marriage and have been blessed with a daughter but the marriage is about to collapse because of the used condom found in the toilet.

His uncle was surprised because he is not always at home and he does not use condom on his wife.

The young man who posted the story on Nairaland wrote:

“Hello house don’t mind my grammar pls!

“There’s problem in the house! We have been having problem with our toilet for a while now but we received a shock after find out what the problem is….

“My uncle is 44 and his wife is 34 with 1 kid (girl) they just celebrated 2 years anniversary. My uncle spend most of the time at the shop. He sells spare parts and automobile, he never knew and will never believe that his wife brings another man home (who she has once introduced to me as his cousin) … FastFWD

“Two weeks now we have been finding it hard to flush toilet because the water is moving …. My uncle called a plumber yesterday, the plumber had to call my uncle to show him what the problem is.. To our surprise its A condom and one of them is still fresh with some sperm inside…

“My uncle was surprised because he said he never used it on her since they got married … He just built the house which is not even up to 1year… Now their marriage is on the line of collapsing, I like the wife very well because she is kind and generous she buys me latest things like phones shoes shirts… I don’t know how to contribute to the issues because I am just a boy boy.”


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Tech Entrepreneur, Elon Musk, Becomes World’s 4th Richest Person



The CEO of Tesla and SpaceX, Elon Musk, is now the fourth richest person in the world.

The outspoken tech entrepreneur’s net worth has increased to $84.8 billion after gains near $8 billion ($7.78 billion) in a single day.

In the process, Elon Musk’s net worth soared past French luxury tycoon Bernard Arnault, the current wealthiest non-American on the Bloomberg Billionaires Index and is now just within $15 billion of social media giant Facebook’s CEO, Mark Zuckerberg, who holds the number three position among the world’s 500 richest people.

Mr Musk’s wealth has grown by a whopping $57.2 billion this year, marking the second-largest increase on the index after Inc founder Jeff Bezos.

In July, Elon Musk had overtaken Warren Buffett to become the seventh richest person in the world. Mr Buffett had donated Berkshire Hathaway shares worth $2.9 billion to charity, causing a decline in his net worth.


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